The last 30 minutes of 2005/ Jemei passes away.

I started for home at 10:30 pm, which was 11:30 in New York where the function to welcome 2006 year, was at its height, when Helen told me that Jemei had died in some where in Ozarks, an area about 15 miles away from Springfield, while Jim was in Stockton. She was reported to have taken over dose of some pills. No details are available at the moment but it all happened when the year 2005 was passing for us peacefully and only a few minutes were left to say good-bye to 2005. Death of Jemei will be remembered as the last sad event of 2005 in the family here. Every body was up set in the family but we know nothing can stop the death train when it starts its journey. I share Jim's grief personally. Despite all odds Jemei was a great comfort to Jim, Helen's only son here. Jim stands shattered now after her un-timely death. Now Andy is the only one living with his father. We tried our best and pursued James to come back but he would not agree. I still believe James can come back if fear of his father's anger is removed from his mind. Jim needs councilling on this issue. A time comes in every father's life when he has to change his face from a father to his son's friend but this is what Jim does not understand at this moment. He should now become his two sons friend so that he can have a peaceful part of his remaining part of life. I wish he changes his attitude towards his sons soon and be happy.